นักการเมือง: lead expectation ผู้ฟังไปในทางที่ต้องการ
honest person: ผู้ฟังตัดสินใจตามตัวเอง
talk with sad ppl
listen
acknowledge that other ppl feeling is real, don’t treat them as something fake, don’t be apathy (at least, analyze it or try to reasoning with your experiences with similar feeling)
except if it’s too ridiculous
e.g. rephrase it that they encounter this >> feel that
(quite normal mental state) restate that the problem is real, something that they don’t like might be inescapable, and they have to do something and it is gonna hurt but they have to do it
(quite normal mental state)don’t tell them to cope by viewing the big picture, except they seems to handle it well
(quite normal mental state) sometime we just want someone we trust to tell us that those shit stuffs that happened are not such a big deal.